whose life is more miserable?

1. i have one friend he is in love with a girl that is not responding to him
- to never allow pain to take more of your life then it deserve
2. i have one friend he is in love with a girl who only wants to be friends with him
- to see but not touch, so near yet so far but it is probably something that will last more than what will take place
3. i have one friend he is in love with a girl that no longer in love with him
- to once have her love, her touch but probably it is better to see her happy than arguing with her everyday
4. i have one friend he is in love with a girl who has a boyfriend
- to understand that probably someone else can give her the love that you can never give. you can even be even that better man but love is just love, you just have no way to fight for that position
5. i have one friend he is in love with a girl who is engaged to someone else
- to know you had a time of your life to change things but now she remains as a reminder to you 'seize the moment' or should i say use whatever time left for you wisely

seriously whose life do you think is more miserable? to have or not to have at all. to be blind your whole life or to see and lose your sight again. which is more painful. i still cannot decide. i can only feel the pain of many hearts around me and i sympathise the mask they need to wear to face the day. i can only be this person that can be there for them so that they can take off that mask for a few hours.

"A wise man once said you can have anything in life if you will sacrifice everything else for it. What he meant is nothing comes without a price. So before you go into battle, you better decide how much you're willing to lose. Too often, going after what feels good means letting go of what you know is right, and letting someone in means abandoning the walls you've spent a lifetime building. Of course, the toughest sacrifices are the ones we don't see coming, when we don't have time to come up with a strategy to pick a side or to measure the potential loss. When that happens, when the battle chooses us and not the other way around, that's when the sacrifice can turn out to be more than we can bear" meredith, grey's