tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26864471.post115065554682912729..comments2023-07-25T19:35:08.767+08:00Comments on my memoirs: maybe someone can give some answerschaiyenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15947556179649075500noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26864471.post-1150737447494718542006-06-20T01:17:00.000+08:002006-06-20T01:17:00.000+08:00well.... sometimes that's just it. They don't care...well.... sometimes that's just it. They don't care anymore. Or they are trying to make the girl forget them or they aren't interested in making the effort. It's a brutal reality but wuld you rather have a guy string you along and then have you find out he never intended to date you? Harsh but guys are and can be jerks. <BR/><BR/>That's not to say that girls are completely blameless. One needs to take a look at the circumstances before making a judgement call and both sides of the story too. If the girl was playing games as one comment suggested then too bad, u deserve it. Just as girls hearts and emotions are not to be played with, the same holds true for guys.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26864471.post-1150722986784720132006-06-19T21:16:00.000+08:002006-06-19T21:16:00.000+08:00I'm no pro in this matter but this is what I think...I'm no pro in this matter but this is what I think. You can pretty much bet on 2 things:<BR/><BR/>1. As much as it sucks to accept it, he has made up his mind based on the past couple of weeks(?),months(?) of courtship on where this relationship is going. But to be honest and fair to you, if he's a gentleman and an official courtship was agreed on, any final decision made should've been communicated. <BR/>The cold turkey could stem from #2. <BR/><BR/>2. You girls probably "tarik harga" too much to where guys just give up because of the confusion from the initial courtship agreement. Or it could definitely be just another way us guys are "baiting" you back. 2 can play the same game sometimes. But my instinct, playing heart games could lead to tremendous hurt. So guard your heart!Edmundhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17161634583823453252noreply@blogger.com